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Emmett's Birth Story (And Then Some)

Posted by Pamela Vaughan

Jan 28, 2009 11:48:06 AM

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This is the story of the 11 hours and 17 minutes before Emmett came to be.� That's right - it only took 12 hours from start to finish, which is apparently a pretty speedy labor/delivery considering he is my first baby.

It all started at 12:30 a.m. on January 16.� James and I had been watching our usual episode of Nip/Tuck on DVD in bed before we fell asleep when I started to notice what felt like more substantial Braxton-Hicks contractions.� This continued for another hour and a half before I could fall back asleep.� I think we were both excited at the possibility of� real labor contractions but were still skeptical about it being the real thing.

When I woke up at 3:30 to a slightly more intense contraction, I think we both knew we'd get to meet Baby Lump later that day.� We decided to get out of bed to see if a change of position would ease the pain a little bit, which was still only causing me minor discomfort.� We hung out in the living room and watched some TV as I bounced on the "birthing ball " (AKA a fitness ball). � This was definitely an improvement.� In fact, I felt so much better that we even questioned whether the whole thing was a false alarm, which brought light to another dilemma ...

We were already scheduled to be at the hospital at 8:30 that morning for Baby Lump's non-stress test.� Now the question was if we should call our friend Michelle (who had so graciously offered to drive us to the hospital when the time came) so we could bring our hospital bags just in case my labor progressed and they asked me to stay at the hospital.� Surely, a T ride to our doctor appointment while I was having contractions would have been less than ideal, especially if we made it to the hospital and ended up needing our bags.� (Ironically, we never even opened our bags until we made it to the post-partum room after delivery.� So much for all those comforting supplies I'd packed for labor like Jolly Ranchers, massage lotion and iPod speakers to make for a soothing labor atmosphere.)

Anyway, it was around 5 a.m., and we decided the best course of action was to call the hospital and ask the advice of the doctor on call.� Lucky for us, our doctor was the doctor on call that night!� The next several minutes were kind of a funny sequence of events, and they went something like this:

5:30 a.m. - I call Dr. Stagg, who says it sounds like I am in early labor and confirms that, yes, we should probably bring our bags to our 8:30 appointment, just in case.

5:35 a.m. - I call Michelle, who sleepily yet excitedly agrees to pick us up at 7:45 for our 8:30 appointment.

5:40 a.m. - I hang up the phone with Michelle, get out of bed to use the bathroom, and (ick!) my water breaks!� After several "ew" noises, I announce to James I'm going to take a shower and that he should call the dr. again.

5:41 a.m. - James calls back Dr. Stagg, who advises us to head on over to the hospital!

5:43 a.m. - James calls back Michelle and asks her to pick us up sooner rather than later.

6:30 a.m. - Michelle picks us up and we head to the hospital with our bags, very excited and pretty calm.

As soon as James and I arrived at the hospital, it was as if someone immediately flipped a switch to the intensity of my contractions.� I remember being in the elevator on the way up to the delivery floor and grabbing onto James so I wouldn't cause a small scene.� We arrived at the triage room at around 7 a.m., and a midwife determined I was already 5-6 cm dilated!� This time, they knew I was definitely supposed to be there.

The nurses seemed pretty excited at my desire to attempt natural childbirth, and we were admitted to the only room on the floor with a working jacuzzi tub, plus an amazing view of the Charles River.� The contractions started coming with little downtime in between, and the only way I was comfortable was to stand and grip (poor) James' upper arms.� I had absolutely no desire to be in a sitting or lying down position, so when my nurse, Stephanie, first suggested I try sitting in the tub, I rejected it immediately.� I'm glad she and James were finally able to convince me, because I don't think I would've made it through the whole labor/delivery naturally if I hadn't been in that tub for most of the active part of labor.� (Keep that in mind if you ever decide on a natural childbirth.)� The buoyancy and warmth of the water worked wonders in relieving the pressure from the contractions.

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Yes, there were a couple of times when I begged James to let me give up and take the epidural, but he and Stephanie did a great job at assuring me I could do it.� It was also a big help that at 10 a.m. when the doctor checked my progress, I was already 8 cm dilated.� It only took another hour in the tub before I was fully dilated (10 cm) and ready to push at 11 a.m.� Forty-seven minutes of pushing later, Baby Lump was born and James announced that we had a little boy on our hands!

It was absolutely amazing.� I'll never forget the moment the doctor placed his slimy little purple alien body on my chest - he was beautiful (and even moreso after they wiped him off and he turned pink).� I was expecting the doctors to sweep him away shortly afterward to count his fingers and toes, but they let me keep him there for as long as I wanted.� It was all pretty surreal.� I got exactly the childbirth I wanted (natural and no induction!), I was officially a mom, James and I were officially parents, and best of all, Emmett was perfectly healthy.

Of course, a lot has happened since Emmett was born (it's just that a certain little man has been keeping me pretty occupied and preventing me from blogging as frequently as I'd like).� Here's a quick summary:

  • We chose the name Emmett while we were still in the delivery room, but it took us a while to announce it because of a slight name-spelling discrepency between James and me.

  • We had a little bit of a jaundice scare and almost had to leave Emmett in the hospital for a few extra days (Luckily, the doctors deemed him good to go and we were discharged as scheduled on January 18 - Emmett was able to experience his first snow!).

  • My mom stayed with us for the first week and was a huge help with the transition.

  • Emmett has already had his first doctor visit (plus a follow-up!), which included his first trip on the T.� Interesting fact: Emmett only lost two ounces in the hospital, but gained 6 oz. back by his first doctor visit 2 days later!� (Doctors prepare you to expect them to lose 1 lb. within the first week - what a piggy!)� As of his second doctor appointment last Thursday, Emmett already weighed 8 lbs. 6 oz.!

  • We gave him his first sponge bath at home the other day - I think he was a fan.

  • He lost his umbilical cord stump on the 26th, revealing quite a cute little outie belly button.


Last but not least -� a huge thank you to everyone who has sent me and James congratulatory messages over the past couple weeks via text, facebook, twitter, etc.� I wish I had the time to thank each of you individually!

Age Timer: 12 days old
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Topics: Weekly Updates, Milestones, Announcements, labor, natural childbirth, childbirth, delivery, birth story

A Birds Date Poem from Dad

Posted by Pamela Vaughan

Jan 14, 2009 9:08:12 AM

So my family does this cute little thing where we call one's birthday his or her "birds date."� Today I received this lovely little poem in my inbox from my father dearest:


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Happy Birthday to my youngest daughter,

Who waits in Boston for the breaking of her water.

Will Lil Lump choose this day to make her a mama?

Or is he/she waiting for the inaugural of Obama?

Regardless, today you're three and twenty.

So I hope you enjoy your day aplenty.

You've officially made it to U-24!

Is it cold up in Boston?� I blame Al Gore.

Thanks, Dad!

I've been overwhelmed will all of the birthday wishes today.� Thank you to everyone who has wished me a happy birds date on facebook, twitter and via text message or phone call (I can't believe how many of you there have been, and the day is only half over!), and thanks in advance to those who will do so later today.� I feel so special because of you!

As for sharing a birthday with Baby Lump, it doesn't look like that's going to be the case at this point.� Even if I went into labor right now ... Wait a minute ... No ... That was just a swift baby kick to the rib ... Anyway, even if I went into labor right now, I doubt my labor would be speedy enough to enable me to pop out a baby by midnight.� And though, yes Lauren, it would've been "totally cosmic" to share a birthday with my baby, I agree with my mother that Baby Lump should have his/her own day to celebrate.� Besides, that will totally mean I get to chow down on two separate birthday cakes within the span of one week for the rest of my life!� Not too shabby ...

Oven Timer: 40 weeks, 2 days (OVERDUE!)

Maximum Days Until We Meet Baby Lump: 8
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Topics: birthday, Milestones, Events, birds date, January 14

It's (A Different Kind of) D Day

Posted by Pamela Vaughan

Jan 12, 2009 11:28:33 AM

oven-timerNo, I'm not talking about the invasion of Normandy during World War II.� I'm talking about my due date (Maybe it should be DD Day?).� Well, it looks as though I won't be one of those few women who has her baby on her due date.� (Less than 10 percent actually do!)� My oven timer must have broken.� I'm also still pretty suspicious of Baby Lump's scheming plot to steal my birthday.

Maybe not though.� According to my doctor's visit today, I haven't really progressed at all since last week.� Although the baby's head is low and I feel like I've been having a lot more Braxton Hicks contractions, I'm still only two centimeters dilated, so my status is pretty much the same as it was during my last visit.� I guess my little tenant just finds me a much too comfortable mom motel to check out of.� I prefer to think of myself as a five star hotel actually.

I do, however, have an appointment for my induction.� It was originally scheduled for next Tuesday (January 20), but I was able to reschedule it for a few days later to give myself more time to go into labor naturally.� It looks as though the launch of Baby Lump will be initiated on the morning of January 23 at the latest, which means he/she could possibly share a birthday with (Boston's beloved) John Hancock and, - even better - Tiffani-Amber Thiessen!� I guess you could say that on January 23, I'll be saved by the bell.� Ha.� Ha.� (cricket, cricket)

The countdown begins - either way, there are only (at max) ten more days left of a pregnant me!

Oven Timer: 40 weeks!!!

(Maximum) Days Until We Meet Baby Lump: 10
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Topics: Weekly Updates, Milestones, labor, due date, induction, birth date, 40 weeks

"Baby Lump, Getting Ready for Landing." "Roger that!"

Posted by Pamela Vaughan

Dec 3, 2008 2:19:56 PM

Well, I had my ultrasound on Monday after my doctor's concern that my belly was measuring slightly smaller than normal, and I'm happy to report that everything is A-okay with Baby Lump.� I guess I must just hide it well, huh?

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So Lump is estimated to currently weigh 5 pounds (though I think it's hilarious that there is apparently a 13 oz. margin of error when determining weight via ultrasound).� (Raising a glass of sparkling cider)� Here's to hoping he/she doesn't have some crazy ridiculous growth spurt in the next several weeks before birth!

What's also cool is the ultrasound technician was able to tell for sure that the baby's head is down, which means Baby Lump is starting to gear up for a (hopefully) smooth landing.� Apparently it's highly unlikely the baby's position will change at this point, so it looks as though I won't have to worry about Baby Lump being in a breech position.� Hurrah!

In other news, I wouldn't be surprised if Baby Lump gained a whole pound of weight from my cake consumption alone today.� My wonderful colleagues at the Office of New Media at BU threw me an awesome little baby party today, where they all wished me "Happy Baby!"� (Because, seriously, what else are you supposed to say at baby parties?)� Check out the cake they got me - definitely not a Cake Wreck, that's for sure!� Special thanks go to my boss, Pam, who made all of the arrangements for the little shindig.� I had a great time!

Check out the latest ultrasound pictures on the Sonograms page!

Oven Timer: 34 weeks, 2 days
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Topics: Weekly Updates, Milestones, cake, ultrasound, baby position, baby party, presentation, 34 weeks, sonogram

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